This isn’t love

 This isn’t love

This isn’t love 

When a man hates his wife 

When a man thinks he loves his wife….

And she packs her bags 

Took the kids 

She vanished….

Still 

You’re in denial 

You don’t get it 

Til you see her livin without you 

Now it starts to hits…..

You realize 

What have you done?

You realize what 

You lost…

It’s too late…

She ignored you 

Cos you hated her 

Remember?

Or you stopped lovin her 

I watched videos of men 

Like you who hate their wives 

You used for her assets to benefit 

Your selfish ways….

How is it ok?

I always thought about 

Their daughters 

They see their fathers hatin 

Their own mothers….

They might think it’s ok to find 

Men who hate them…

What about their sons?

Dads are teachin them how not to be 

Devoted to their wives….

It’s like wow

You want your grownup kids 

To be that lonelier just like you….

To mistreat the people they love 

To be disrespectful and dishonest 

Cos to you there’s no such thing as 

Joy and happiness…not even inside you 

It’s a cycle 

May be passed on 

It’s trauma that leads 

You broken and you never know 

How to Heal, you don’t even know 

How to express your therapist 

About your lingerin pain.. 

I don’t know…

Though hatin your wife is unacceptable 

Especially when she takes care of you 

When she never lets you give up on yourself 

She loves you unconditionally 

And you fool

I think you’re afraid of 

Real love….

You never know what to do with it 

You’re also a boy 

Who can’t handle the difficult things 

You can’t handle your wife 

At her worst….

May this kind of toxic that someone thinks 

It’s love never find me….

Never find me at all….

I don’t want a husband who hates me….

Who thinks I’m useful 

Who seeks for my resources 

No, I don’t want that….

That’s not how the marriage works 

When men hates their wives 

I hope their wives find the courage to walk away 

That’s the hardest thing to do 

Cos they love them…

Yet they had to stroll out the door and leave their husbands 

In the dark for good…

After all they asked for this…

They asked them not to be around 

Sayin it’s for the best…

When really 

Deep down they miss their wives 

After they’re gone….

You thought she’ll come back home,

She moved on…

You will never admit 

That it’s not peaceful without her…

Do you really want your sons to be in 

The same position as you do?

Lonely? Breakin their future wives’ hearts?

Do you really want your daughters to marry a 

Man who makes her feel invisible?

Do you really want them to be hated by them?

Cos it’s unhealthy….

When I watch that video on YouTube 

About how these men who ain’t appreciate 

Their wives, I thought about their children 

Watchin their parents love unravelin and 

Family become shattered pieces…

If they see their dads explaining his hate 

Toward their mother on TikTok, somethin will broke

They will ask why….

That’s not a good example of a father respectin a mother…

💔💯©️Kai C. 8-13-25