Barren
Do you have to call a woman
Barren?
Do you really have to?
What if it’s not her,
Maybe it’s a man’s issue?
But today’s society
We can’t put that on men…
We got ourselves believin
Men ain’t the problem…
Somehow
Their pride pushes that harsh truth
To the side
So is guilt….
They chose their sidechicks
Makin them believe their babies
Are theirs…
Another crazy part
Is those mothers
Boy moms
Invade their sons’ marriages
Tellin their wives you can’t bare
My son a child…you are no good
And the husbands don’t say shit…
This is where
You fumble a great woman
Cos she has sacrificed for you
She has built with you
How you pay her is
Humiliation rituals….
And when she’s gone for good,
You’ll come back when it’s too late…
And you see
She’s not barren
She has babies with
Her new husband who respects her…
You found out
That the other woman
Was fuckin another man
And has his baby…
It’s not yours….
The issue was you
All along….
It’s not always the woman….
Sometimes it’s the man
Patriarchy plays too many roles
In these situations all the time….
There’s shame when you found out
You’re not the father
Yet you knew you had an
Issue…nobody’s barren…
Barren is an unkind word….
Men with their legacy
Men with wantin sons
Y’all must need to be honest
With yourselves….
If yall can’t produce
And it hurts so bad
Would y’all go to therapy
Before ego ruins things?
Y’all can adopt
Or In your minds
Children has to have my bloodline?
Also, would you take care of
Your kids?
Cos
If y’all let that ego
Ruins your marriages,
For your lifetimes,
Y’all would say
“I shouldn’t let
That wonderful woman go….
I should have adopted
I should have been
A good husband…
I’m extremely lonely
I’m divorced
No woman is like her
I even let my mom be involved
Now
She left me
Married another man
Have beautiful babies
She’s not the problem
I realized i am…
She cut me off
This is my consequences…”
Y’all live somewhere
Someplaces in the dark
Thinkin about your ex wives
So called “barren”
It’s what y’all get
For lettin your whole damn pride
Gets in the way…..
A voice
A voice warned you
But your stubbornness
Said shut the fuck up…
And it leads you to
This uncomfortable solitude….
Again,
Honest question…
Would y’all go to therapy
Before ego gets the best of you?
Before you find out the sidechick lie?
Y’all can’t be restless….
Y’all can’t blame the wife….
Y’all gotta be mature about it
And y’all have the right to feel the way….
However y’all don’t need to get
Someone be all in your head with the foolishness…
Y’all don’t need to follow patriarchal society
Also y’all gotta accept it or not
But y’all don’t need to blame the women…
Y’all don’t need to break your own homes
Cos y’all can’t reproduce….
That’s unhealthy….
If this really bothers y’all,
Do somethin different
Like volunteerin
Children centers
Or go find a group of men who are in the
Same situation…
Somethin
Maybe it might heal
Y’all on the inside…
Y’all can do that before
Y’all break your wives’ hearts….
💯©️Kai C. 5-19-26