Don’t tell me how to dress….
Don’t tell me how to dress…
Sir
It’s my freedom
My own choice
You ain’t goin to control me….
I’m not sure if
You’re tryin to help…
I don’t wanna use your suggestion…
I understand I’m representin us
However let me express myself…
You ain’t goin to mentally abuse me
Today…
Not ever….
Cos who the fuck told you
I should wear somethin else…
I’m not your plaything….
I’m not your slave….
I’m a person…
I’m a woman….
If you got an issue,
Then we ain’t goin to be together….
I’m not changin for anybody….
You can’t turn me into somebody I’m not…
Like I can’t change you….
It seems like you’re insecure…
Why are you jealous of your own woman?
Well right now
I’m not your woman anymore…
You can say I’m sorry
All you want….
But hell nah….
We ain’t goin back….
You tell me
How to dress in a certain way…
I’m not wearin hoochie….
I’m not revealin my skin….
Yet if that’s the case,
I’m stayin home…
I’m not goin with you….
I’m not your girlfriend….
I hope I don’t have second thoughts
After I stood my ground….
No man should tell what to wear…
You should be able to be yourself…..
A real man should love you for you
Regardless of your style….
I understand
A man like his woman classy
Beautiful who light up the room
But at the same time
She brings out the shine….
She’s her own star….
She does respect herself….
Just don’t tell me how to dress…
Or I will break up….
To me it’s a red flag….
Another sign of abuse….
If I let you do that,
I’ll question myself….
I’ll ask myself, am I not good enough for you?
And it’s bad….
I don’t wanna change myself for
A man who doesn’t value me….
He wants power over me
It ain’t romantic….
If I go outside
Wearin his idea on my body
My eyes will be filled with misery….
Like an Idiot I end up forgivin him….
It’d be a pattern….
I don’t want that…
I gotta have a backbone
For my heart’s sake
To say no….
To say no I’m not doin that….
Whether you love me for me
Or we’re out…
Yes I will feel hurt
Though I have integrity….
Don’t tell me how to dress
Don’t change me….
I shouldn’t have to sacrifice
For being that “perfect woman”
So no
I won’t dress up
The way you want it…
I don’t care if you mad
If you cry….
No
Don’t tell me how to dress…
I know how…💯©️Kai C. 10-19-26