Fightin over a man

 Fightin over a man

Fightin over a man

Is not worth it….

I heard stories after 

Stories…..

and you know what 

It’s not worth it…

When I fight over a 

Man, not thinkin about 

Myself…I wanted him 

To choose me….ladies 

Why do we think this way?

Are we trained to be competitive 

With each other for a dick? 

It’s ridiculous….

We usually get mad at the other women 

Who stole our husbands/beaus..

Right?

Ya it depends cos cheaters lie them as

Well….mostly it’s the man’s fault 

Who decided to leave the relationship….

The man’s fault that he can’t express himself 

He ain’t happy…..

So there are hidden dms and tweets 

Hotel receipts fallin out of his pocket….

Fightin over a man

Is so dumb….

He doesn’t love his woman….

He chose not to control his penis

Sayin he’s a man….

Which is a lame excuse….

If you’re not happy 

Then leave….

If you cheat, nothin good 

Comes out of it….

And 

Fightin over a man 

Isn’t a reward….

He ain’t god…

He’s just an asshole…

Who plays with women’s hearts 

And bodies….

In fact 

He doesn’t love him

Only his ego….

It’s why 

Fightin over a man 

Is not worth it 

We have to keep that in mind 

We have to consider it…

I can’t stand us 

For being fools 

Over a guy who’s a 

Player…too foolish 

Over him when we say 

My man, my man, my man 

Too delusional to the fact 

That our real friends warned us 

About him….we don’t listen….

We have learned the hard way 

We still do…

When are we goin to realize 

Those toxic men are bad for us….

Some of us see our own fathers in 

Them representin how they left our 

Mothers and find someone young…

That’s the worse of the worse….

It’s the truth 

It’s the trauma 

And we as women should 

Able to heal and look beyond that 

Cos there are healthy examples of 

What real love truly looks like….

You can look through your family 

And find a beautiful non toxic marriage

Between two people…

For me, for a real love I see is for myself 

Is peaceful, it’s not perfect but warm…..

A man who loves me 

And i love him 

Fightin over a man 

Is wastin time….

It’s givin us more pain 

Than ever… 

Cos all he wants is to have 

His cock to be fed 

And boast his pride….

He never gives a fuck 

Any  women who brawls 

Over him, he enjoys it…

That’s porn to him….

It’s like women losin themselves 

Over a man who played them…

We shouldn’t be cryin

Over a guy who tricked us 

He should be cryin 

For losin the game….

He’s goin to be lonely 

He’s goin to masturbate 

Unless he gets an a i

Robot….he thinks she won’t 

Mind him cheatin….

And what if that machine 

Play him right back….if that 

Machine gives him his own medicine 

He deserves….and 

For the women out there 

Don’t fight over a man 

With a robot….ok?

Trust me 

A man who can break your heart 

Constantly is not worth it….

💯✊🏿❣️©️ Kai C. 11-19-25