3/17/2009

friendships3-17-09

friendships


when a friend who is like your family, friendship is for life no matter what. but when your friend could break your heart, and it kills you deeply, it is when the friendship ends. friends who are suppose to be your sidekicks and be there when you're feeling down. i have so many friends all over the place but i cannot trust some of them. like for an example, people pretend to be your friend and make you gullible. and yet, we have to know your friends really are…otherwise if you don't, you ended up in complicated situations.


6 comments:

Devika said...

What's happening with you, Kai my dear...

all these recent posts -- so full of negative thoughts...Kai, if you start doubting all the world seems a hell...

People behave in manners they do, because of their circumstances, the way they were bought up...and the way the learn in life...

We just need to be ourselves..and the real friends will always find their way back to you...

BE POSITIVE, my dear poetess...Poets should be positive -- they are lightbearers for the world, they say :)

love, always
devika

Kai C. said...

i'm not being negative, i am telling the truth. why did u say that? i'm not started doubting the world either.

Devika said...

I was not saying that wrt to this post alone, my dear...

Three or four of your last posts were about cheating, doubt...I read it that way..I could be wrong...

If you are fine, leave my comments my dear...be happy :)

devika

firebird said...

Kai--you DO need to share your pain with the world, in this blog, if that is what you are going through...

Devika, sometimes you have shared some sad and painful experiences with us, too--it's part of life--
But I do understand that true friends want to see you both come through the pain and be happy-- and yes, sometimes we need to try to turn away from the dark side of people around us in order to recharge our own light.

I think that's what Devika is trying to say, Kai...and we do love you!

Devika said...

Yeah Firebird, you are right..

But, Kai has been posting it here recurrently, I was trying to make her understand...all of us quite know that the world or those who we call friends may not behave the way we expect them to...

I gained myself with the help a few friends, but sadly I had to shut from all at my blog, due to a few "players," to use your word....(whom i see a player may well be a friend to you, and who i see a friend may well be a player to you)

....we know or we need to find out ways to save ourself if the world turns hostile...that too is part of life...

and you definitely can count on atleast some of your friends, if not all

I do love you both, my dears, :)

wishes,
devika

i know, I may be sounding high now, as I am through with the pain....if I had to read these posts in some of those days, my comments would have reflected my pain :)

Aurora said...

Good observations, Kai, well expressed!